Proverbs 31 is the chapter describing a woman of valor. Was it written about any woman in particular? Must a woman perform all the duties mentioned in this chapter to be considered virtuous?
AskTheRabbi.org answered:
Proverbs 31 is a poem that lauds the virtues of women. Is it referring to one particular person? No, I don't think so, rather each wife can have some of or all of the virtues that are mentioned and be considered a true "Woman of Valor".