It sounds unpleasant and my heart goes out to you, but please keep a positive outlook and I hope and pray that your concerns are resolved very soon.
Personally, I would recommend that you try contacting the Gateways offices directly. Gateways contact information is :
Email: office@gatewaysonline.com
800-722-3191 - 845-352-0393
Please tell them that you made an initial contact with the Ask the Rabbi site and that you were recommended to contact them directly.