I recently became engaged. It is a very joyous time for us. However, a subject of “spirited debate” concerns the design of the chuppah (wedding canopy). Some in the family are staunchly for the chuppah being supported, per tradition, by four poles. My fiancé and I have a concept of a "floating chuppah", using our grandfathers' prayer shawls, suspended and secured by lines without the support of the four poles. My question is: are there any provisos/requirements regarding the architecture of the chuppah? Thank you for your time and advice!
Firstly, Mazal Tov! May you and your fiancé merit to build a “Bayit Ne'eman b'Yisrael” – a beautiful Jewish home – and may God bless you with many, many years of health, contentment and continued growth together.
There is no specific requirement for the Chuppah to have four poles. Using poles, however, is a widespread custom dating back to the time of the Talmud. If you two prefer a pole-less chuppah I suggest you ask the officiating Rabbi for his say. In fact, whenever there are any questions about the wedding ceremony it is important that the Rabbi officiating be consulted, as the final say is his.
Permit me to share the following idea I recently heard about the interesting “architecture” of the chuppah. The chuppah is open on all four sides. At this time when the couple begins their shared life in one domain – represented by the chuppah – they show their desire to follow in the way of Abraham our Forefather. Just as Abraham dwelled in a tent that was open on all sides so that any traveler who approached from any direction could be shown his generous hospitality, so too the newlyweds marry under a canopy without walls to show their “open house” policy as well. May you merit the great blessings that your ancestor Abraham received and always be successful and happy together.
